Balancing your work life

You are a working mom on maternity leave. You must be too busy with your tender one till last moment of your leave to completely devote your time. But as soon as you reach last phase of your leave, you have a mix feeling of emotion and responsibility. You may carry different kind of feelings inside you at this moment. Some kind of anxiety will be there obviously as you are not ready to leave your child for a long time with somebody else, whereas there must be some kind of excitement to resume your workplace.

Just gear up with all those things that are necessary for your little one in your absence, such as:

  1. If your baby is breast fed, then you require a breast pump whether a manual one or an electric one.
  2. If you have already started your baby with formulae then, you must keep enough packs of formulas along with number of sterilized bottles.
  3. Sets of nappies or diapers should be there as per need.
  4. At least two to three sets of cleaned clothes as per season.
  5. For cleaning purpose, there should be a pack of wet and dry tissues.
  6. For bathing, there should be one towel, shower gel, shampoo, body lotion and a set of cleaned clothes.
  7. Sets of cleaned Napkins to clean your baby’s face.
  8. Sterilized and dry cotton balls to clean your baby’s sensitive areas.
  9. Some favorite rattles for tummy time and baby gym for passing his or her time.
  10. Even you may start putting him or her inside the play pen or play cot for certain time.

 

Invisible Love

It is said that parents love is the most unconditional love one will ever get. The thought is absolutely right. Parents always try to fill their children’s life with precious efforts, time, discipline and talent. But, as you know parenting is different with each individual, I want to focus on invisible love from parents. Every parents love their inherit member the most, but not all parents could express this every time they want. For some parents ‘Love you my child’ is the most difficult phrase that they always wants to utter. Why is that so? Showing love does not mean parents will provide the luxurious living for their child, instead of this, they should try some special moments for their child which will bring some magical change in parents-children relationships.

Some behavior and changes specially made for your child to help him or her understand the eternal love from their parents, is enough to get rid of all kinds of stress for your family. If you are really stuck with your words or cannot really open up about your feelings in front of your family or your child, then you should try some change which your child will specially love to see in you and always demand from you silently. Is this the most toughest job in your life? Shouldn’t be so, because the most tough job to reciprocate the love for your child.

Parenting in each level learn to limit themselves, so that they does not produce extreme love to pamper their child or extreme ignorance to invite hatred from their child. Parenting is going in a right way, but the amount of love you want to give should be visible to your child in order to let them understand, why you are drawing a limit for them. Love is always better to be visible with your loved ones.

 

The Transition Point of a Family

The Transition Point of a family

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Once my aunt told me, not to expect to continue having same relation with your hubby after having your baby. It is impossible to continue with same feeling and bonding with an extra member between both of you. That special member is going to be the most sensitive living creature in your life. My aunt was actually right, it is a feeling of insecurity which every woman will feel at particular point of time.

My situation may be the worst than yours. Due to the hectic profession, my husband never got a long vacation or quality time to spend with me. I always used to demand more and more time from him. After marriage, I decided to continue with my studies further, and was in a nuclear family. So only two of us were there to stay alone. My husband’s work place was almost 1600 kms away  from my hometown. I got detached with all my…

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The Transition Point of a Family

Once my aunt told me, not to expect to continue having same relation with your hubby after having your baby. It is impossible to continue with same feeling and bonding with an extra member between …

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The Transition Point of a Family

Once my aunt told me, not to expect to continue having same relation with your hubby after having your baby. It is impossible to continue with same feeling and bonding with an extra member between both of you. That special member is going to be the most sensitive living creature in your life. My aunt was actually right, it is a feeling of insecurity which every woman will feel at particular point of time.

My situation may be the worst than yours. Due to the hectic profession, my husband never got a long vacation or quality time to spend with me. I always used to demand more and more time from him. After marriage, I decided to continue with my studies further, and was in a nuclear family. So only two of us were there to stay alone. My husband’s work place was almost 1600 kms away  from my hometown. I got detached with all my childhood and college friends immediately after marriage, now my husband was the only one to love, to trust, to irritate, to help….. . Now I think you can imagine my loneliness as a new bride. One year after our  marriage, I was not a new bride anymore to roam around without doing anything effective at home. Slowly, I had to take up my household responsibilities of my part. Anyway, my husband is almost six years elder than me and very supportive in any situation of our life but on the other hand never compromised his work.

Two years past marriage, we decided to plan our first child. Naturally, that was the turning point for both of us. Suddenly, we came to know the importance of our life and time. We were blessed with a baby girl. It is said that girl is always more adorable to her father than to her mom, and ours was no difference. I still remember those days when I was totally shuttered with insecurity, loss of love, felt the particular time as the end of our love life.

Came into realization that on the other side of the coin, my husband is feeling exactly the same as mine. The only difference is that he sacrificed the loss of love only for his most dear one. There came the season of love which truly never ends and believe me it is the love of a family which cannot be compared to any other relationships.

Potty Training

We always notice that the grandmothers or alike grandmothers are pretty concerned about this manner in a kid. They usually protest the most of using nappies and diapers for long time. This not only helps you to minimize your diaper bill, but also make a well behaved toddler. The kid should be potty trained by 2 years of age, but do not start until they show some interest on it. How to start and how to maintain, is quite difficult to explain you by words. So I just picked a very useful video for you to learn this topic. Just click on the link below.
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Baby Brain – Myth or Reality?

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Many articles published recently claim that the ‘baby brain’ is nothing more than a myth and in fact women become smarter during pregnancy.

I’m not questioning the science in any way shape or form, but putting the research and studies aside, I find we are shaped by our own subjective experiences.

Personally, I find it very plausible that pregnant women may exhibit unusual characteristics. Spiking hormones and tiredness alone, in any person, pregnant or not, would certainly lead to an adverse effect on behaviour. You don’t have to be a scientist to work that out!

Now armed with the awareness of the infamous ‘Baby Brain‘, I resist the temptation to call the ‘X Files’ team to investigate my wife’s (Rambo) escalating strange behaviour.

Future dads beware! If you partner exhibits any of following signs, don’t panic and for gods sake, certainly don’t point out or question what you see or hear. The last few…

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