Parental Teachings

We are on a live telecast to the world we are living in. We are actually not meant for these kinds of performance to perform at every moment of our life. Everyday we are performing better and better as we are growing up in front of these fake acting studio outside. Even for a single moment we are afraid of raising our inner belief, thoughts, behavior in front of the other co-artists who are struggling too. We sometimes misunderstand people by thinking them as a straightforward person, who does not have any sense of fake praise and so, he is showing us the right mirror. I think they are a different actor than us, who is showing us somewhat a bitter side of the mirror just to hide behind it. they actually does not have the patience to see his reflection in that same mirror.

We always keep on discussing, how matured the kids are nowadays. Don’t you think we are the Directors of our children’s life, who keep on directing according to changing situations? Child always learn by watching what we do, by hearing what we say and by learning what we teach. These truths are as pure as a new baby. As we are forced to become an artificial person day by day in front of our kids, they are also forced to learn these behavior and expect the same from their peers.

We lead an innocent life, actually lead a life full of living objects rather than non-living objects. Most of the parents are proud about their active childhood. Are we providing the same childhood as we or our parents does? Can’t we think of a simpler life for our children. We are surrounded by expensive and materialistic world, which demands the actors like us all the time, but if you are really keen to make your child’s childhood memorable, then you may find a nature corner just to listen your child’s endless stories which will really take you to a fantasy world, or you may find a piece of paper just to see your child’s scribble and when you praise her, she really becomes a proud painter. This are the endless happiness you may get throughout your life.

A fake face can only build a fake face too. We should never raise our child with the maturity we have, rather we should try to understand their innocent imaginative world just to take ourselves out of this live stage at least for some moment.

It is really impossible to live without our developed gadgets and facilities, but if we can inculcate some innocence along with this boosting technologies in our children, then it would be always better than it could have been.