Balancing your work life

You are a working mom on maternity leave. You must be too busy with your tender one till last moment of your leave to completely devote your time. But as soon as you reach last phase of your leave, you have a mix feeling of emotion and responsibility. You may carry different kind of feelings inside you at this moment. Some kind of anxiety will be there obviously as you are not ready to leave your child for a long time with somebody else, whereas there must be some kind of excitement to resume your workplace.

Just gear up with all those things that are necessary for your little one in your absence, such as:

  1. If your baby is breast fed, then you require a breast pump whether a manual one or an electric one.
  2. If you have already started your baby with formulae then, you must keep enough packs of formulas along with number of sterilized bottles.
  3. Sets of nappies or diapers should be there as per need.
  4. At least two to three sets of cleaned clothes as per season.
  5. For cleaning purpose, there should be a pack of wet and dry tissues.
  6. For bathing, there should be one towel, shower gel, shampoo, body lotion and a set of cleaned clothes.
  7. Sets of cleaned Napkins to clean your baby’s face.
  8. Sterilized and dry cotton balls to clean your baby’s sensitive areas.
  9. Some favorite rattles for tummy time and baby gym for passing his or her time.
  10. Even you may start putting him or her inside the play pen or play cot for certain time.

 

Invisible Love

It is said that parents love is the most unconditional love one will ever get. The thought is absolutely right. Parents always try to fill their children’s life with precious efforts, time, discipline and talent. But, as you know parenting is different with each individual, I want to focus on invisible love from parents. Every parents love their inherit member the most, but not all parents could express this every time they want. For some parents ‘Love you my child’ is the most difficult phrase that they always wants to utter. Why is that so? Showing love does not mean parents will provide the luxurious living for their child, instead of this, they should try some special moments for their child which will bring some magical change in parents-children relationships.

Some behavior and changes specially made for your child to help him or her understand the eternal love from their parents, is enough to get rid of all kinds of stress for your family. If you are really stuck with your words or cannot really open up about your feelings in front of your family or your child, then you should try some change which your child will specially love to see in you and always demand from you silently. Is this the most toughest job in your life? Shouldn’t be so, because the most tough job to reciprocate the love for your child.

Parenting in each level learn to limit themselves, so that they does not produce extreme love to pamper their child or extreme ignorance to invite hatred from their child. Parenting is going in a right way, but the amount of love you want to give should be visible to your child in order to let them understand, why you are drawing a limit for them. Love is always better to be visible with your loved ones.